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Wednesday, February 7, 2007 12:00 AM

From dating an Asian man to living with him: Parents still don't know

I'm a white woman in my 40s. His parents don't approve of me. Am I just insecure?
By Cary Tennis

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  • Tuesday, February 6, 2007 07:18 PM

    marriage?

    i must disagree with cary on one point: do not marry this man for any other reason than that you love him and he loves you and you both want to be married to each other. do not get married because of his parents' issues. you and your partner are both likely to outlive his parents. letting their angst push you into making decisions, whether for or against their wishes, is giving them too much power.

    —karen

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