Letters to the Editor

This letter is associated with the following article:
From dating an Asian man to living with him: Parents still don't know I'm a white woman in my 40s. His parents don't approve of me. Am I just insecure?
  • Great advice

    I think Cary hit the nail on the head here. It's not about how the situation SHOULD occur. It's about how it IS. These two are living in 2 different cultures, and BOTH cultures need to be acknowledged. I agree strongly with CT about the parents possibly having greater influence on their son, than the girlfriend. While not common in my own family (I am Asian-American), many of my friends who are also Asian-American have parents who are traditionally minded and would possibly react as the LW's in-laws are, though not to that extent. This is particularly true in less Americanized Chinese cultures.

    Nice to see that you're back, Cary!

Most Active Stories

Read More

Letters Help

Daily Delivery

Salon headlines in your mailbox