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Wednesday, February 7, 2007 12:00 AM

From dating an Asian man to living with him: Parents still don't know

I'm a white woman in my 40s. His parents don't approve of me. Am I just insecure?

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  • Wednesday, February 7, 2007 09:27 AM

    another off topic letter

    Dear letter writers,

    Those of you who think Cary is an idiot don't have to read his column. You have a choice; no one is holding a gun to your head. Why you waste so much time, however, going on and on about your opinion of him is beyond me. It takes away from the pleasure of reading the readers' responses, which of course you don't care about. If Cary is such a terrible writer and/or gives such bad advice as you suggest, then why is it that he is paid to write the column and you are forced to just spout your unwanted, sometimes obscene, drivel for free?

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