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It's not HIS father. It's someone else's. He's not even a family member.
My dad is a royal asshole. When he finally kicks it, instead of attending the funeral, I'm hopping a plane to NYC to celebrate with a hugely expensive meal at Restaurant Daniel (yes, I've thought it out.). My brother and sister will probably join me.
Anyone who wants a eulogy can provide it themselves, and that's exactly what I suggest LW's response be if someone in this person's family insists on one.