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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 12:00 AM

Should I leave my alcoholic husband?

I'd give him an ultimatum, but what if he sobered up and I still wanted to leave?

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  • Monday, January 29, 2007 09:04 PM

    Al-Anon is for you, not him

    My dearest LW, and I truly mean that, get out now while the gettin's good. Don't even bother with the ultimatums. And go back to those rooms. Al-Anon is not for his drinking; it's for your recovery from this experience. It's not about him, it's about you. Keep the focus on yourself, because you are all you can control.

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