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Wednesday, January 24, 2007 12:00 AM

My wife is lying to me about her affair

I'm already raising two kids of my own. Should I divorce her and go it alone?
By Cary Tennis

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  • Wednesday, January 24, 2007 03:37 PM

    Cary is absolutely correct

    I am adding my vote to those who say Cary's advice was correct.

    I speak as a person whose first wife was a liar and a cheater. Fortunately, there were no kids (that is, additional victims) involved and that made it easier.

    It is tough and heartbreaking no matter what, but once the clean break is made the healing process can begin.

    I have been very happily married to an adult for the past twenty-one years. It is possible to hook up with someone who has grown up and is willing to make a real commitment to sharing a life.

    Lying drama queens, regardless of gender, are just not worth the pain.

    —Joel_Grant Read Joel_Grant's other letters

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