Letters to the Editor
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Santa exists if we believe
The 13-year-old is probably choosing to believe in her own version of Pascal's Wager. It's all good if Santa does exist -- and if Santa doesn't exist, it doesn't change much, except that her parents will express regret at how fast she's growing up.
But you're right, Cary. It is possible to pass from a literal belief in Santa to a poetic one. The best way to do that is to play Santa oneself, for those who wouldn't otherwise get presents from Santa.
The LW should sit down with her daughter and imagine a specific child who won't be getting a Christmas present; find, make or buy the perfect present for that child; and then donate that present to the nearest family shelter or children's hospital.
That way, the LW's daughter will know what Santa really is, and some anonymous child will, too.
Merry Christmas.