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Should I tell her -- to save her from the derision of her friends, if nothing else?
  • Bring them in on the secret

    A few others have mentioned something similar. In my family growing up I was about 8 or 9 when my Mom and Dad took me aside and let me in on the secret. The key to making it fun for me was letting me in on the fun. That night was wonderful. I was the one who got to eat the cookies and drink the milk. I was allowed to help stock the stockings, and wrap the santa presents. I was the one who was able to nibble on the carrots.

    This helped me feel like part of the fun, and I loved carrying on the tradition for my younger siblings. I think that really helped.