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I agree with those who think the "boyfriend" has basically destroyed the relationship, by projecting his own fears and shortcomings onto the letter writer.
It's certainly admirable that she wants to try everything she can to save the relationship, but it sounds like she's already done everything she can. She should grieve the loss, but ultimately it's good that she learned about his "true colors" before a marriage and children. I also agree with the writer who suggested that our BF probably has other "issues" that would eventually surface. Send him packing, girlfriend, and hold your head high. You did nothing wrong.
