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Just a note to say that I've since decided my earlier post was wrong. I basically said he's just young & the LW should give him a clear last chance. It appears she did already, and on re-reading her original letter it's also clear that I originally didn't fully grasp just how big a jerk he's been about this. DTMFA, and my apologies to the LW for getting it wrong the first time.