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Actually, I think the guy who wrote this advice column - I'm too lazy to press the back button and see his name and don't really care anyway - is nuts and is no position to write any advice column if he can't understand and empathize and see the sanity in this guy's dilemna. The boyfriend obviously has a very idealistic (not the same as unrealistic) and sacred notion of love, which is his absolute right and he just found out something about this girl that made him realize she's incompatable with that. Well, unless the situation is that this past is presented as a big mistake and she is now different. And, unless that's the case and that's enough for him, he probably isn't going to be able to continue the relationship. I mean, let's be clear here. It's not about right or wrong. Anyway, I love the notion of a menage et trois as much as the next guy, but probably wouldn't seriously date a girl who's had one.
