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Anon, I'm asking what you do in fact mean, because this all started with sex, so I'm not sure anymore if that's what you're still talking about! I'm assuming you are still talking about sex, but if not, tell me what you are talking about. It is not a woman's perogative to ask someone else who you're having a debate with to explain their position so you can understand what they mean.
I didn't condemn you based on my interpretation, I just asked, is that what you meant? If it isn't, explain what you do mean-- maybe I'll even end up agreeing with you. (I think I posted here yesterday defending what I thought your point was at the time, so I'm not just out to get you.)