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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Tuesday, December 19, 2006 12:00 PM

    I haven't even finished going through the letters but...

    As a man, I'd like to apologize for a lot of the childish men on this chain. Are you all still in High School and worried about dating a girl with "Bad Rep". What the fuck do you care what your girlfriend did before you arrived? If she isn't carrying a disease, a baby, or a criminal record it doesn't impact you in the slightest.

    I have often told me girlfriend that it isn't men who judge women as sluts, that that is just something women tell each other as part of the billion ways y'all tear each other apart. Now, I'm going to have to go home and tell her I was wrong. There are still "adult" men out there who care about this stuff.

    Look people, sex is the way that mammals reproduce. That's it. There is no magic when body parts interlock. Nothing has been "soiled". Who knew the Victorians still held such sway on Salon readers.

    And when will you idiots learn that the less judgemental men are about women's sexual freedoms, the more sex we can have with more women. It's as simple as that.

    Dear Christ I can't believe we are still having these arguments in 2007 (Almost)

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