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To the woman who wrote about guys being able to go out and have sex anytime they want. LOL. If only. I'm a guy, and I assure you that I'm infintitely far from that luxury, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
I once met a woman who expressed that exact sentiment to me, and her regret that she couldn't. Thinking that was an opening, I let her know that I would have sex with her anytime she wanted. She just laughed at me and said, "No, really, I'm serious. You guys can just sleep with anyone you want." Yes, that's me, King Stud.
But perhaps you were referring to the no social fall out thing, but I think you are over estimating that as well.
As to LW. Yes, it's over. I don't think it's fair to call the guy a nut - he's entitled to his hang-ups, as fruitless as they might be - but he has no right to punish you for them.
I'm one guy who would be more than willing to forgive and forget. There are others out there, too.