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In case you were thinking that it is only male instinctive responses that are capable of producing perverse real world results. I don't believe that for most men what a woman says makes no difference, what I do think, what I said, and what is clearly true as anyone capable of a direct observation of reality will admit, is that an attractive woman has to work a lot harder to get men to stop finding her attractive due to what she says than a man has to work to make himself unnattractive to women based on what he says.