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My husband tells me that the guys at his office are always complaining about how their wives never have sex with them.
I always thought this was weird, but after reading about the LW's boyfriend and some of the other responses in support of him, I think I get it.
These guys are so insecure about their own sexual abilities, that they look for partners who are inexperienced sexually or possibly even have sexual hang-ups. Then they are all shocked when they find themselves in sexless marriages.
Back in high school and college I was rejected by a few guys who were turned off by the fact that I was so turned on by sex. I bet those same guys are the ones complaining about their nonexistent sex lives now.
Meanwhile, my husband, who, by the way, would never have been bothered if I'd had a threesome, says I'm the perfect woman-- a sweet mother and preschool teacher by day, who is a total slut in the bedroom at night.
If you worry about your woman being too slutty and only date inexperienced women, guys, prepare for a lifetime of cold showers.
