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First off, I think having woman like you would be such an awesome thing. To have a girlfriend who has experimented and lived such experiences is great and a lot better than being with someone who has not had any. Something like this can enhance a relationship to a higher mentally erotic level and increase the love between the couple.
I think your boyfriend is using this to control you and make you feel guilty. It is his way to totally gain control and feel superior. Also, he cried? This guy is a total wussy. What are you even doing with him? I can admire a guy with moral character and all but he cried? Come on and get real!!
I was with a woman for 6 years and we had a great relationship. About two years into the relationship I was going through the attic and found a shoe box and when I moved it the box fell over and pictures poured out. They were all pics of my girlfriend with different guys. There must have been a hundred pics of her with about 50 different guys and they were pretty explicit. I have to admit, at first they bothered me but as I looked through them I got excited and started thinking of the woman I loved who after being with all those men she picked me to be with. I knew I still loved her and thought to myself I was not going to hold it against her and instead find a way to use these pics to enhance our sexual relationship. We had more fun with those pics by making her feel good about her past as opposed to bad. After all, she would not be the person she is if it were not for her past experiences.
We are still very good friends today and I never ever made her feel bad about anything. Drop me a line if you want a guy who can appreciate your and your past :-) This guy does not know what he is has.