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First, I'm beginning to think the Romans maybe were on to something, except the part about women not exactly being in total control of their sexual choices. I say, let's go back to Roman times but this time we give both genders the same amount of autonomy LOL.
Second, and please read carefully, those of you who are so hung up on the sex part: THE GUY IS NOT NUTS BECAUSE OF HIS INITIAL REACTION TO THE SEX. HE IS NUTS BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN PUNISHING HER FOR SIX (!!!!!!!!!!) MONTHS AND REFUSES TO MAKE IT BETTER OR TO GET HELP.
Sorry people, but IMO the sex part has very little to do with this problem. The problem is the guy's refusal to work on it. All this talk about sex is secondary, frankly.