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I love your typical misdirected feminist anger. Sorry if you're speaking from personal experience, but you've got the wrong guy. I've never been to a bachelor party, shunned frat parties my whole time in college, and don't particularly care for strip clubs. Nor am I the type of guy who has one night stands and 'hook-ups'. It is in fact, the guys described above and the ones you direct your anger at that have the casual attitude towards sex that is required to accept something like this. Sorry.
P.S. How exactly is it 'hypocritical' for a straight guy to be turned on by lesbians but not by gay men?