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I had a similar experience with my girlfriend, and her past has always bothered me. However I have only mentioned it to her a few times and my attitude towards her is far from "mental abuse".
What's most interesting about my case is that I am NOT insecure, and I am absolutely confident that I am the best man she's ever been with. What really bothers me is that the men she's been with before she met me were all MUCH WORSE than me in every way. This bothers me because the image of such trash uneducated people with small p****s having sex with the woman I love is just DISGUSTING, and I went through absolute HELL in order to stop these images. (haven't been completely successful yet!)
Dr Dr, I would really appreciate your opinion about my case too. I love my girl and will commit suicide if my behaviour bothers her again even one bit.
LW, I think you're a fantastic girl, but give your guy a chance if you think he really loves you. This is like hell for some of us and we need some time and professional help to get over it. I also think you should both try to believe in similar "moral principles" from now on (e.g. both agree that threesomes are perfectly normal or both agree that threesomes are bad!).
