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The anonymouses and no-names are completely missing one key point: more experienced =! better lover.
I've had some incredible lovers. Some were experienced, one was a virgin with women. I've also had some awful lovers. Some were experienced; a couple were virgins with women.
A good lover is one for whom the pleasure their partner is getting is paramount, and who takes pleasure from the pleasure they're giving.
Those of you who think it's all about numbers and experience are doomed to be bad lovers until you can drop that notion. Forget about the numbers and think about the person who is here with you expecting you to be a good lover. They're already well-disposed to think well of you, doofus.
