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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Wednesday, December 20, 2006 01:18 PM

    men in general are not going to be less sexually interested in a woman because another man complains about her

    women on the other hand will tend to judge a man at least somewhat negatively if other women say he is a chauvanistic asshole. The way this plays out is that in a social setting men believe, correctly I think, that if they say the wrong thing it will reduce their chances of social/sexual success/opportunities with the female "community" in question. Women, correctly I think, believe that their appeal depends on attractiveness and sexual charisma and won't be much affected one way or the other by what they say or don't say.

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