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Such a disclosure would mess ME (a male) up too. It would mess YOU up too (all you males). I'd like to see you deny it. Now tell me how you would try to deal with it. Well -- ?
why are you people always looking to speak for everyone? You're not okay with just your own judgment -- "it would mess me up." You need impute the rest of males too, to speak for all of them. What if you're in the minority (i.e. it wouldn't mess up most men)? Do you suddenly doubt your own views?
If my girlfriend had previously been in a threesome the key would be what kind of threesome. 2 gals and a guy would be fine, but if it had been her and two guys--absolutely unacceptable.
-- Wes
What does that mean, "absolutely unacceptable"? What if she enjoyed it? Or is it by definition not possible for a woman to enjoy that kind of thing, in your world? She simply MUSt have been coerced or drunk, right? And if she did enjoy it, she's a dirty slutbag?
What if you had been in a threesome with two women, and thoroughly enjoyed it? Is that absolutely unacceptable as well?
