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I'm seconding Cary's advice. The LW's boyfriend is an immature jerk. Life's too short to wait and see if he'll ever grow up. I doubt he will. Most likely, if LW stays with him he'll lord it over her forever. There are lots of wonderful people in this world, and she deserves to be with someone better. And to the guys who are writing letters defending the LW's boyfriend, you guys are at least as bad as he is. What a bunch of babies.