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and almost anything COULD be a bad sign, admittedly it's tricky to judge how much weight to give any particular (seemingly minor) thing. It's true that once you are commited you may not be sensitive enough, but for women anyway (since they don't have extreme horniness, except in rare cases) OR emotional commitment to moderate their sensitivities, EVERY MALE (unless they are either gay or a psychopathically good liar who tells you exactly what you want to hear) could be seen as a potential psycho.