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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Sunday, December 17, 2006 10:54 PM

    everyone that you don't stay with is not up to par in some way, unless they dump you

    and almost anything COULD be a bad sign, admittedly it's tricky to judge how much weight to give any particular (seemingly minor) thing. It's true that once you are commited you may not be sensitive enough, but for women anyway (since they don't have extreme horniness, except in rare cases) OR emotional commitment to moderate their sensitivities, EVERY MALE (unless they are either gay or a psychopathically good liar who tells you exactly what you want to hear) could be seen as a potential psycho.

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