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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Monday, December 18, 2006 07:54 AM

    To Captcrisis

    I haven't seen ONE letter writer saying, "I'm a male and it would have been O.K. with me if my wife/girlfriend had been in a MFF threesome." - captcrisis

    I'm a male and it would have been O.K. with me if my wife had been in a MFF threesome. In fact, she was. And an MMF threesome. And she did all kinds of other stuff, some of which I've also done, some of which I haven't. Never bothered me.

    Why would I care if she had or hadn't? All I cared about was whether she was healthy (did we need to take extra precautions?) and whether was she historically faithful to her partners? (She was).

    Your jealousy of a partner's history is a symptom of a world that thankfully, is fading away.

    I answer anonymously only because this is my wife's history, not mine that we're discussing and I haven't cleared it with her to share.

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