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I haven't seen ONE letter writer saying, "I'm a male and it would have been O.K. with me if my wife/girlfriend had been in a MFF threesome." - captcrisis
I'm a male and it would have been O.K. with me if my wife had been in a MFF threesome. In fact, she was. And an MMF threesome. And she did all kinds of other stuff, some of which I've also done, some of which I haven't. Never bothered me.
Why would I care if she had or hadn't? All I cared about was whether she was healthy (did we need to take extra precautions?) and whether was she historically faithful to her partners? (She was).
Your jealousy of a partner's history is a symptom of a world that thankfully, is fading away.
I answer anonymously only because this is my wife's history, not mine that we're discussing and I haven't cleared it with her to share.