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Cary's first line (This guy is nuts. What's wrong with having a threesome?) makes me wonder - didn't anyone else think he's being a bit sarcastic here? I'm not convinced Cary is 100% on LW's side. And for all you BF bashers out there, remember you're only hearing one side of the story. I'm sure the BF would have plenty to say.
Anyway, I agree she's got to get out. That said, why hasn't she done so already? I know, I know, true love... but maybe that's why he hasn't left either. Maybe he's hoping he'll get over it and, like LW herself, just doesn't know that it's over. And maybe he IS being a jerk, but how many of us are angels under that sort of stress? Again, I'd like to hear HIS side.