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"IN SUMMARY, be a good girl and you can marry a good man. Be an empowered slut and you can fuck a good man. Try and have both and you can write a column for Salon. But you can't have it all. That's life.
-- No Name Given"
IN SUMMARY, do what this asshole says and you can marry an asshole like him - now there's a recipe for eternal happiness.
Anything that filters out cretins like this guy can't be all bad.