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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.
By Cary Tennis

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  • Monday, December 18, 2006 11:42 AM

    Excellent response, Cary

    Especially about the therapists, I enjoyed that. Took my daughter to therapists for years, talk therapy, medications, not really a help. Huge amount of time and desire to change things and make them better on my part, with no real results. The guy is a nut, and it pisses me off to hear this woman begging for his love and forgiveness when he has none to give. When you have no compassion for others, you ultimately will receive none yourself. When you give of yourself and feel ashamed of yourself for no real reason other than that the person you love thinks you suck, it all becomes disgustingly twisted, and you will end up with nothing. Go, and stop loving him.

    —carrie

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