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I normally think Cary gives bad advice (being that it's not really "advice," but navel-gazing post-existential musing), but he is right on the mark with this one. The way he cut to the chase had me laughing out loud:
"OK, so maybe it was dumb to tell him. But you found out something. You found out he's nuts."
Priceless. And true. Dump this dummy, stat.