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is the one derived from female emotional responses and no negotiation is necessary or desireable with any approach which is not so derived. In this specific case the issue is the importance of sex and whether or not men and women are in the same position in regard to it. I was not and am not referring specifically to the slut/virgin issue which was brought up originally but to the qestion which developed from it as to whether or not males and females are in a substantially equivalent position regarding sexual access, choice and opportunity and if not how the responses to that fact should be dealt with.