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I knew that's what you meant, Anon. And the reason you put 1000 times the importance on sexual "failings" compared to weightier matters such as selfishness vs. generosity, etc., is because you are very, very immature. Eventually most of us grow up enough to realize that the opposite sex can't always give us everything we "would like" sexually and socially, due to several factors, but that that does not make them evil people. Lots of good people make sexual "mistakes" and bad choices, often in one phase of life. Other factors of a person's behavior and character are far, far more important. And deserve far more of our scrutiny, self-examination, and self-flagellation (if any) and vigilance.