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men spend a lot of time working it and have to settle for what they can get as aresult of that work
a woman, without investing any effort can pick what she wants, any time she wants, out of a huge number of people who are making themselves available. Isn't it obvious that even if both people end up sleeping with the same number of people that the two situations are different.
-- anon
This is probably the way it seems from your vantage point. But your vantage point is that of a self-serving justifier of your own failures with women, for whatever reason. Might I suggest going out and meeting someone women, and refraining from bashing them and telling them how they have it really easy? People don't appreciate that.
Maybe you're posting from the 50's, where men were exclusively the pursuers, and women never picked up on guys, women were never rejected the once in a blue moon they condescended to go on a date with a guy. I don't know what social environment you live in, but it has very little in common with mine, I think.
