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"The maturity level here is amazingly low. Plenty of letters from the “if she’s had sex with anyone before me, she’s a slut” and the slightly more liberal “if she’s had more partners and/or kinkier sex than me, she’s a slut” crowd. Not to mention the “once a slut, always a slut” crowd, and the “I’m not getting laid enough, girls can get laid any time but they’re not screwing me, o woe!” emo-boys."
Exactly. As a man I've been amazed and dismayed to read all of these letters by other men who are so bent out of shape about a woman having a 3-way, and/or whining how they don't get laid enough to be good in bed.
If you guys are really that threatened by a woman having a sex life and/or you aren't a decent lay, then I suggest that you look inside for the reasons why instead of attacking and/or blaming others for your problems.
No wonder so many women think that so many men are whiny and immature jerks - because if the letters in this group is any indication then apparently many of them are.