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Anon, are you this obsessive and stubborn and self-defeating when you're out trying to meet women? Please, stop trying to globalize a very local problem -- which is, you have absolutely no idea how to relax, take the incessant focus off your pointless universal theories about male and female opportunity, and just enjoy the company of the specific woman in front of you. (Okay, now I'll wait for you to respond that you have absolutely no problem charming the ladies and you're merely enlightening us all to the facts of living in modern America.)