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• Tuesday, December 19, 2006 10:52 AM

  Experiences, good and bad make us who we are

  This guy needs to step up to the plate and get over it. He needs to realize that all of this woman's experiences sexual and otherwise have helped make her who she is and who she is is why she loves him now and dare I say it, why he loves her.

  Take my situation, my current girlfriend has been with more than a few men (about 4x as many men as I have women). One of them was hung like a donkey, and she found that she did not so much enjoy such a large member. One of them had a penis that curved sharply to one side when erect, and this to was not very much enjoyed. Now I could be all upset about the fact that she has had her share of men, and knows what kind of dick she likes, and I could get all insecure because I am surely NOT hung like a donkey, but then I realize that her experience with other men has in part helped her appreciate me and my more average penis. In essence her experiences have helped her discover who she is and what she wants, In and Out of the bedroom and that makes me more secure in her love for me because I know she knows what she wants and she is with me.

  So I say, more power to the LW and hopefully, her boyfriend will pull his head out of his arse soon. Oh, I should also mention that i am one of those "sex is sacred guys," but I don't go to strip clubs or have one night stands etc. I also am no prude and am more than happy to make sure my woman cums however necessary ;-)

  —Anonymous
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