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Please don't assume you have any idea what the "normal" guy's reaction to this disclosure would be. Nothing you've said so far speaks for me at all, and I'm just as "normal" as you.
Unless by "normal," you mean "coming from a male ego-centric, morally absolutist, judgmental and hypocritcal point of view."
You have a tell, by the way. Your immediate leap from solving a relationship problem that was clearly as much about communication, honesty, trust and vulnerability to ones' partner as it was about sexual histories, to an lengthy, rambling indictment of third-wave feminism, exposed your troll-like ways.