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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Tuesday, December 19, 2006 08:17 PM

    OK, maybe I'm naive

    Why does two men/one woman automatically mean anal sex was involved, or happened at the same time as coitus? Maybe I'm clueless, but that just doen't make sense to me.

    COuldn't two men one/women mean oral sex and coitus? Or both concentrating on her?

    I was in a male dominated TA room (three women, 30 guys), and the guys claimed a two male, one female threesome was more about what was going on between the guys. They "shared" a woman because of some things bordering on homoerotic. There was no expectation she would do anal. Is that a porn thing or something?

    We have no details about what went on, but the most vehemently critical posters all seem to reference the "taking two guys on at once" thing. I have to admit, that's not what I thought of, and it's not the experience of the women I've heard of actually doing it. Many women just don't like anal sex. In the Nancy Friday female fantasy book, that was not the vision of a three way presented by her contributors.

    Oh, well, my husband says I'm kind of naive about this stuff. I'm not a porn watcher or anything.

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