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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.
By Cary Tennis

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  • Tuesday, December 19, 2006 10:42 AM

    Same thing happened to me.

    Same thing happened to me -- and it was the first in a downward spiral of controlling behavior.

    Your boyfriend will always feel inadequate -- the posturing about the threesome is just a symptom of that. There is nothing you can do to change his behavior. These -- not those of a wonderful man who you thought you might marry, but a those of a judgemental, insecure boy -- these are his true colors.

    Drop him. Seriously.

    —bonita

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