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Cary's right, the guy is nuts. What gives him the right to be sick and angry about your past? Or, if those feelings did come up, he ought to be willing to do one of two things: deal with it, or admit he can't, and say goodbye. If it's been six months, and he hardly has sex with you because he just pictures other guys, it sounds like he's mostly getting off on punishing you. He might have found some other excuse to do that, eventually. The threesome was just an easy one