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Monday, December 18, 2006 12:00 AM

My boyfriend freaked out because I had a threesome

It happened before we were together, but he can't handle it and he's being a real jerk.

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  • Monday, December 18, 2006 11:03 AM

    Anon, why do you sing the same tune over and over again?

    "There is no way any man unless he is a movie or rock star can have the same opportunities to learn to get good at sex as the average woman. Learning requires doing and men's opportunities to learn are limited."

    Your implication is that women's opportunities to learn are not limited like men's are. So, women are having sex and learning more than men are. But women are having sex with SOMEONE, right? And i think we're talking about heterosexual sex. So these women are having sex and learning from MEN. Now, unless you're going to argue that movie and rock starts have sex with so many women so many times that they actually make any sort of noticeable impact on the total amount of sex being had, you must women are having sex with men, and that both the men AND the women who are having this sex have the opportunity to learn.

    You, like so many of your whiny compatriots here, fall into the "strength in numbers" justification for your own lack of success with women. Instead of being honest with yourself and trying to think of ways to become more appealing to women (for example, self-pitying complaints of how men are abused won't score you any dates), you've decided to try to convince yourself that your problems are the problems EVERYONE is having. You've combied that idea with the popular idea that "if you say it enough times, it becomes the truth."

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