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anytime there is a problem between them it is always the result of malevolent intent on the part of the male.
The post didn't say that. I don't think anyone agrees with the above, or is advocating for it. You just want to think that all women think that, so your hatred of women is justified.
The post only talked about this particular situation, and in this particular situation, the guy is wrong. He asked, she told him the truth, and now he's putting her down and controlling her and getting all high and mighty moral on her for something she did, that, whether or not is the right thing to do, cannot be undone.
The more i think about it, the more this letter has nothing to do with sex. She could have told him, "yes, i took LSD once" and he would start screaming and vomiting about how the body is sacred, not to be polluted with drugs, etc. The guy is a controlling, passive-aggressive manipulator.