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Hey, I have a book to pad, so I'm going to try and be funny, try and be glib, say the f-word, throw in some snark (Joan Walsh demands it in every column, evidently), and eventually say, "Yes, tell your partner."
Anyone who subscribes to Salon is...well, the kind of fucktard who needs to ask a complete stranger if they need to tell a prospective sex partner they have a highly-contagious STD.
The rest of us are having fun for free.