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Unfortunately if sex is so so now most everything else, even if it is fantastic now, will eventually be so so. It is not important wether she needs or wants. What is important is that she will need and want 20 years from now no matter what. So if you have a great time now thats cool but this sex thing is going to be in the way as one of the partners is not satisfied. It will interfere with everything and it will be terrible. Same as if sex is great but everything else sucks ass. AND speaking of - Try licking his butthole this gets most guys going even if the don't admit to it. It works for me. :-)