Letters to the Editor
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Short and sweet
must say, shaving does suck b/c of the ingrowns but I've found the perfect compromise is a hair trimmer, maybe 1/4" or 1/2". This way guys get to see and feel more and you'll still feel like a lady. Also, the sex is better. Good luck!
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omnibus response
Shaving myself is for me first, to enhance my sexual pleasure, then offering my partner a gift of cleanliness and youth. I'm even ready for my 14 year old daughter, if and when she asks why I shave, I will simply state, "For my sexual enhancement." -- Anonymous
* You are a sick fuck. Not only for the "gift of cleanliness and youth," because that's just pathetic. Bush isn't dirty, and your pussy is as old as you are, with or sans hair. But you're a little too gung ho to get your child involved in this fixation of yours. Get professional help. Now. And thanks for proving the point about bald pussy = pedophile.
For me smooth pubes say "porn star"-- not "child". I think my pubes are prettier without hair (lingerie looks nicer when everything is pruned) and I rather like the increased sensation.
-- Anon
* So, you're proud of looking like a porn star. Your parents must be so disappointed. Incidentally, your "pubes" are the hair, you fucktard. "Pubes" is short for pubic hair. And your lingerie still has the days of the week printed on them, so grow up before you try posting again.
I despise body hair. Humans have the nastiest, most wiry, unpleasant-feeling fur of all mammals I've ever "touched."
-- alarajrogers
* Look, your thing is beastiality. Perhaps this isn't the website to brag about your sick personal habits. Try www.redway.org.
I have to wonder, do women fetishize prepubescent males when they express a preference for a man's face to be clean shaven?
-- Prefers all landscapes
* For the last time, if you can't tell the difference between bald genetalia and anyone's FACE you have more problems than Cary can solve. Get a clue before you get near a razor or a keyboard.
OK, kids. It's your body. Just know what you're doing and why you're doing it as well as all of the risks involved before you take a blade to your nether regions. And please...somehow pussy has been eaten for a few millenia without women having to shave it first, and we all managed. Just like somehow a few billion successful blowjobs were given before tongues were pierced. You people are so fucking stupid sometimes.
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As you like it
Dear Reader:
Your genitals are a special place. You should feel good about them and feel good about sharing them with others. To answer your question: no, you are not obligated to remove your hair. However, I encourage you to regard your bush as your canvas and to express yourself however you wish.
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I love pussy
Finally, an intelligent question. I could go on for hours and hours talking about womans' pussies, just the word makes me hard. I can't believe a man, a real man would make an issue of this, just to be fucking you should be more than enough. Personally I like to see a few hairs poking through the seams of the panties letting me know that I'm that close to pussy I guess. Anyways I've been with quite a few woman and none of them were shaved, that's not to say I'd turn it down if it was though.
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to shave or not to shave
I recently had a similar dilemma. I dated a guy for a couple of weeks, the first guy I'd both dated and had sex with in years. (Usually I either date them or have sex with them).
After we'd done the deed a couple of times, he requested that I put in a "landing strip." Already not exactly thrilled with his dating skills; (he'd been making jokes about hitting me), I actually did shave, but dumped him a few days later, & we never had sex after I shaved. So it turned into more of a personal journey with my pubic hair than anything else.
Never having gone the distance 'down there' before, I went, razor in hand, to the bathroom, removed nearly everything, then trimmed short the remainder, leaving a clear line of sight for the man in question to 'land'. I had no clue if I did it 'right'. Having rocked the full bush for the entirety of my adolescent & adult life, I felt sort of naked.
It was uncomfortable, weird, but ultimately not that bad. It made me ask a lot of questions about myself & what I wanted out of dating, probably more than the situation warranted.
The bottom line for me was, I realized that it was okay to experiment with different 'looks' for my pubes, just like I might with the hair on my head. Unfortunately, I did do it for a guy. but whether you've got the mountain (wo)man or the soul patch, It's all a matter of personal preference.
The way it affected my attitude towards dating is a different story. I was torn about whether I wanted my pubic hair to be coiffed to his liking. I mean, he was the one who had to look at my vagina, not me. On the other hand, I hated that he felt like he could exercise absolute authority over the appearance of my cooch, which made me feel like he was controlling and weird, at best, or trying to make me feel gross & less than desirable (notably, he waited until after he'd banged me a couple of times to ask.)
In any case, I don't really have an answer to your question, except that while it's okay to experiment with new styles, the full bush should be fine too. And keep in mind that I dumped that douchebag, so shaved or not, he won't be seeing any more of my pubes.
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Bushwhacked
I agree with Cary, it is likely be a style that is influenced by pornography. And a lot of men watch porn. All the women are completely shaven,.... well so I have been told ;-)
Try a bikni wax instead. This just includes the sides and possibly underneath, depending on where you go. That way it will be less traumatic. It is usually less expensive than a full Brazilian , $35-$50...damn, It is expensive dealing with hair.
My bf is okay with what ever I decide, but fortunately I have fine hair so some extra growth when funds are scarce is not a big deal. I explained every detail of the waxing process to him and he was suddenly intrigued..esp. with getting down on all fours for the final touch up. he replied "hey, how do I get a job like that?" me: "You don't."