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not a fan...
For the record: mid 20s male.
For starters, at least trimming makes it much more pleasant to go down on women -- and more pleasant to go down on men, too. So I'd say you should just deal with it, at least trim, and expect the guy to do the same. Honestly, if you're discarding guys you otherwise like because they want you to spend 10 minutes every second or third day shaving, well... it's your choice.
I'm sure some feminist will be along to yell at me for my preferences, but don't forget you (as a woman) have agency too. You have a choice: forgo nice men because they prefer you trimmed or shaved, or deal with it. Pick your priority, make your choice, and accept the consequences.
earl