Letters to the Editor
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Find an older man?
I think this is sometimes a generational issue. Those of us who are over 40-something remember when it was a countercultural/hippie thing for both sexes to have hair everywhere, including your legs and pits. For those of us that were into that culture, it was a norm and a fashion choice. Like-minded men who wanted to get laid during this era either had or learned to have an appreciation/respect for female body hair. I was one of these people and so was my husband (thank-god).
Now the style for everyone is to be as hairless as possible all over and to be exposing as much of our hairless and surgically enhanced bodies as possible. It his become a norm and a fashion choice. I understand that there are potential "benefits" to being shaved. However, I happen to get terrible ingrown hairs, pain and itching from shaving and I'm not removing it for anyone, even if it means the end of a relationship.
I think you should find someone who likes you the way you are, there are still men around who like it. There are plenty of great sex toys to tide you over until one comes along.
D