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Perhaps the problem is that the LW is trying to be so considerate of others opinions and so non-confrontational (how UU does that sound?) that she is not seeing how big a problem this can become. As soon as a parent hears about this woman's sexual fantasies, all hell's going to break lose. Even UU parents have their limits. If she can't talk to the other teacher directly, go straight to the committee. Don't let this one woman without boundaries ruin the whole program ('cuz I think OWL is a good program if it's done correctly).