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Tuesday, April 25, 2006 12:00 AM

He has sort of moved in. How do I set some boundaries?

My new boyfriend says he doesn't want a serious relationship. Is he taking advantage?
By Cary Tennis

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  • Monday, April 24, 2006 07:20 PM

    Crap advice

    Cary,

    Your "advice" is just babble. It makes no sense and is unhelpful. Embrace her culture? Have some zen-like wisdom? Puh-lease. She's entitled to have what she wants out of a relationship and needs to kick his butt out until and unless he's ready for something "serious"-- not just be happy with whatever crumbs he tosses her way while she supports him. The real question is how did she get in this situation in the first place?

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