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Or just faking it?
Let's see: (1)You go to a gay bar, (2) you accept a drink from others at another table (common come-on), (3) you invite them to your table and then (4)you are surprised that they are all over you?
Either you are so dumb that you should not be allowed in the streets for fear that you may endanger yourself or, more probably (since you are able to write a coherent letter) you engaged in active flirting with gay men and are now trying to deny it (and shifting the responsibility onto your wife).